Sunday, September 26, 2010

MEN 2!!!

   


     Well, those of you who read the post MEN, knows what this is about. If you haven't read it and are curious, scroll on down and have a peek at it. Lol. So I said I was gonna put my foot down, well I have to be honest, at first I was like ok how am I gonna do this without starting World War III? That's when I came up with an idea, sneak it on him. Change it a little at a time lol. The first day I still took him his coffee, but I had him get his own clothes. Since I was "busy" with the boys. Now at first I thought, well he will probably expect me to get them tomorrow. Much to my surprise, he has actually gotten his own clothes everyday since. As for the dogs he had started to let the 2 puppies in at night, they would tear the house to shreds, and mess everywhere!!!  Saturday, when we got up, I handed him a grocery sack and a roll of toilet paper. Told him to get to work, because I am not doing it anymore!!! And he actually picked it up, as I sat on the couch and watched TV. He cussed and gripped the whole time. Ha ha. I asked him how he felt, cleaning while I sit there on the couch and did nothing? Let me tell ya, he didn't have to much to say about that! Lol But the dogs have not been in the house since! Then for about two days, I did not take the trash out. And let me tell you, that was sooooo hard for me! I CANT stand for trash to pile up! So Josh ( my husband) had asked me Hey baby, u gonna take the trash out? I think about it for a min, and say Yea, in a little bit. A couple of hours goes by, and he asks again Hey baby you gonna take this trash out. Again I say Yes in a sec I'm busy right now. He says Well theres no where to put trash.( In my head the whole time I'm thinking, get off your butt and take it out). But I didn't say anything.. Well I guess he finally got the picture! Lol Because when I went back into the kitchen ALL the trash was gone!!! He has taken it out a few times since. Not everyday, but I'm not gonna complain, because at least we're making progress! So I'm just like WOW!!! Lol, I cant believe its actually working!
      So, ladies, I hope some of y'all are trying this!!! It sure seems to be working for me! Lol at least for now, anyways!!!! Leave me comments and let me know how it goes. GOOD LUCK!!!

Friday, September 24, 2010

Ghost

                                                      


  I figured with Halloween coming up, I would write about something that is usually related to it. Ghost! Now I know not everyone believes in ghost, but for me I do! Only because I have had experiences.
     What is a ghost or spirit? It is the soul of a dead person, a disembodied spirit imagined, usually as a vague, shadowy or evanescent form, as wandering among or haunting living persons.
                                                                                                                

     Our first house we lived in had a ghost, or spirit. Whatever u prefer to call them. At first I thought I was losing my mind, and I'm pretty sure everyone else thought so as well. I know my husband did!!! The first time I experienced it I was siting on my bed folding clothes, I was babysitting my nieces, and I heard someone say Hey, it sounded like my husband. I asked my oldest niece if he was home, she was sitting in the living room. She was like no, then I asked her if she heard someone say hey, and she just kinda looked at me like I was crazy. So I just let it go. About a week later, I was outside talking to my sister, she and her kids were sitting her car, fixing to leave. Well then I hear a kid say something behind me, it sounded like my neighbors lil boy. So I turned around expecting to see him, but no one was there. So I asked my sister if Piper (my niece) had said anything, and she was like no, are you ok. I was just kind of shook my head, and said yea I'm fine. A little time went by and nothing happened, until one night I was trying to get my youngest son to get back in bed. (At the time my husband worked at night, so we were home alone. Sometimes he would get off early or get sent home if they had to many people) Well I was sitting on my bed and my son was in my door way. And all of a sudden we hear the front door open and closed. I know he heard it cause he looked that direction and said Dada. Well when Dada didn't walk around the corner, I took my son, and locked him in my room. I then grabbed my cell and the bat! I walked all through the house, and of course there was nothing. So I checked the door, both locks were locked!! I told my husband about it and he said it was just my imagination.
      I don't remember how much time went by, but one night me and my husband were laying in bed watching a movie, when all of a sudden he puts the TV on mute, and said shhhhh. So I naturally am like what is it, then from out of nowhere he jumps out of the bed grabs the bat and goes running to toward the kitchen, the hole time I'm laughing at him! Just my imagination! Ha! Anyways he comes back in the room, looking like he seen a ghost!!! And was mad because I was laughing! I asked who's imagination is over active now! Lol
     Ok, so now I'm going to shut up about my experiences, because I could go on and on about all the stuff that happened, while we lived there. I threw my husbands experience in, because I want everyone to know that I'm not making this up, and he can back me up! So I thought maybe we could share our experiences,those of us who have had them, through out this month!!!! Should be interesting, and maybe even a little bit spooky!!!!! Muahahahahahahahah!!!!

Thursday, September 23, 2010

MEN!!!

Ok ladies, I know we all say this! lol MEN!!! Have ever wondered why men are so dependant upon women? I ask myself this all the time. Don't get me wrong I love my husband very much! But I swear sometimes its like I'm raising 3 kids instead of 2! An these are the reasons why i feel that way. Every morning I get up and make coffee, and get my oldest off to school. Then I go to wake my husband up! 1 Cant get up on his own. I have to take him a cup of coffee or he wont even open an eye! 2 Cant get his own coffee. Then I have to fight with him for about 45 mins to an hour, before he comes around. Then after that i have to get his clothes before hell even get out of the bed. 3 Cant get his own clothes. Ok, so now hes out of bed, and usually grouchy. he is not a morning person at all! Then I fix him and my youngest something for breakfast. While he sits on the couch and does nothing! Then after that no matter what I'm in the middle of I to stop and  fix his lunch for work. 4 Cant make anything for himself! So then i also have to take trash out and tend to the dogs! And the dogs were his idea! Ugh!!! We have talked about this several times, but it always seems to be my fault, because Ive always mothered him. I have learned that lots of women do this. Then we wonder why were raising another kid, or feeling like slaves. Well ladies I'm putting my foot down! I refuse to be a slave or his mama anymore! Lol. This is just an experiment for now lol, to see how he can handle things on his own! Its time us women stand up to our men! We have enough responsibilities raising the kids and tending to the house, with out having to raise them as well!!! ( This is not all men or women in these  situations) My purpose is not to offend anyone, just simply help out my fellow women! Lol Ladies leave me comments and let me know how it goes!

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Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Potty Training


Keith Potty Training!

I have been trying to potty train my 2 year old (Keith). Its really difficult!!! When I was potty training my oldest son(KeyLynn) , he wouldn't go to save his life!!! But at the time Keith would go, pretty much on demand. I thought he was trained! I was like yes one down one to go! Well when I finally got KeyLynn trained a couple of months ago, Keith quit going to the potty! He will come and tell me he is either poopy or pee pee!!! And I'm like really, you cant go to the potty, but you can tell me when you need to be changed! I'm currently trying the candy thing, you know where you give the child candy every time they go to the potty. Bur I really don't think its working!!! I'm about ready to pull my hair out!!!  If anyone has any suggestions I would really
                                                        appreciate it!







Tuesday, September 21, 2010

My Crazy World


KeyLynn

Me & My Hubby

Hi, my name is Jessica, but I prefer to called Jessi. I am currently a stay at home mom/wife. I have 2 wonderful little boys KeyLynn who is 3 and Keith aka Buddha, who is 2! I am married to Josh, the love of my life, soul mate, and best friend! I have learned that if it isn't one thing its another, there is something crazy always going on in my little world!! So I hope you enjoy reading my blog. And welcome to my crazy world!!

Keith
AKA Buddha